Who's behind the blog and the shop?

Upton Rand, a gay entrepreneur from Ohio, runs the blog and shop solo, creating content and designs inspired by personal growth and LGBTQ+ empowerment.

Why did you start GayMensFieldGuide.com?

Started in 2024 after a divorce, it’s a space for LGBTQ+ folks to find strength, community, and resources in tough times.

What’s the blog about?

Raw, real stories about life as a gay man—like fixing a car to challenge stereotypes. It’s messy, scrappy, and empowering.

How often do you post?

Fresh content weekly—blogs, books, and t-shirt inspo for the LGBTQ+ community.

Why is this blog unique?

A bilingual, accessible blog run by a gay small business owner, offering free weekly content for everyone—gay or curious.

Meets WCAG 2.3 AA standards and offers content in two languages for broader access.

Printer doesn’t accept returns, but I do. Email contact@gaymensfieldguide.com.

Book recomendarions

Recommendations of some of my favorite books

two college wrestlers embracing in a kiss in red colorful wrestling singlets.

On Earth, I’m Briefly a Mess—and Gorgeous: Why Ocean Vuong’s Book Is My Queer Survival Guide

*On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous* by Ocean Vuong. Picture me at Michigan State, trapped in a 9 a.m. class with a pack of hungover zombies.

Book recomendarions

Upton Rand

Mar 193 min read

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a father and son ride a motorcycle on a sepia toned road.

I took my soul in for a tune-up with Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance isn’t about bikes—it’s about making peace with the road behind you. This book was a cathartic.

Book recomendarions

Upton Rand

Feb 82 min read

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