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Gay Men’s Field Guide: Beauty Standards, and where they're heading.
Today we look at gay beauty, where it is— and where it's going. Hey there, it’s Upton Rand, your go-to gay guy with a sharp tongue, a...
Upton Rand
Apr 164 min read
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From Panic to Empowerment: Fixing My Overheated Car as a Gay Man - Gay DIY Car Repair
From panic to power: Watch me, Upton Rand, fix my 2009 Toyota Corolla as a gay man. It’s all about breaking stereotypes with DIY car repair on Gay Men's Field Guide.
Upton Rand
Apr 114 min read
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Dating After a Gay Breakup: Are You Ready For Your Next Gay Relationship?
A year post-divorce, I sat in a Boston podcast studio, mic glaring like it dared me to spill. The host grinned, “Single or seeing anyone?”
Upton Rand
Apr 102 min read
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6 Companies That Don’t Suck for Gays in 2025. Where Gay Activism Means Grabbing a Whopper.
Find the best companies to shop at in 2025 as a LGBTQ+ community member.
Upton Rand
Mar 298 min read
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Dinner Party Etiquette: From Social Caveman to Classy Guest + Gay Campgrounds Revisited
So, dear readers (and IRS auditors), as I continue this journey of self-improvement and entrepreneurial endeavors, I invite you to join me.
Upton Rand
Mar 243 min read
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Gay Men’s Rites of Passage: Finding Community, Brotherhood, and Belonging
Discover the rites of passage that unite gay men—how finding community builds strength, brotherhood, and belonging in today’s world.
Upton Rand
Mar 134 min read
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Sparks Fly, Dreams Don’t Clock Out
Some days the path is clear. Some days it’s like walking through fog. Either way, dreams don’t clock out—and neither do we.
Upton Rand
Mar 115 min read
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Max, my pug, loves when I forget to buy dog food, lol.
In this blog post I show you guys how my cutie pug max goes banana's when he gets Tuna and Green Beans for dinner. He's a little gremlin!
Upton Rand
Mar 41 min read
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Nude Yoga for Men: A Raw, Sweaty Journey of Masculine Energy and Sensual Surrender - Nude Male Yoga - gaymensfieldguide.com
Stepping into the warm, sweat-filled studio, my heart pounds with excitement. I’m already naked, and I'm at my male nude yoga class.
Upton Rand
Feb 264 min read
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Gay Dating Patterns: My Shadow Journey to Vulnerability & Growth
Discover how acknowledging dating mistakes and etiquette failures became my path to vulnerability and growth. Real etiquette lessons from a
Upton Rand
Feb 225 min read
36 views


Planning an Epic 2025 Summer
Skip the last-minute Pride panic! From festival-hopping to beach weekends, smart planning now means more fun, less drama. Let’s start now.
Upton Rand
Feb 143 min read
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