Autumn is here—the season of crisp air, golden leaves, and sweaters that make us all look fabulous. Max and I wanted some great, affordable fall date ideas, so we got to brainstorming. Fall has endless opportunities for adventure. Here are three fun ideas to make the most of the season, with a dash of gay magic to spice things up!

1. Campfire Cooking Date (With S'mores, Of obviously!)

Cooking over a campfire is equal parts rustic charm and pure magic. Imagine this: you and your friend (or date) find a quiet spot, set up a cozy fire, and get to work on a simple but oh-so-satisfying campfire meal. Start with the essentials—s'mores are non—negotiable—but feel free to level it up with roasted veggies or anything else you can throw on the fire. My dad taught me one of my favorite camping recipes, which is great for a fall campfire meal. You just get some aluminum foil and put vegetables inside with salt, pepper, and a little olive oil. Crimp the bag closed in all directions and then bury it in the coals. Pull it out in 2-3 hours for the best veggies you've ever had.

Quick tip: bring a fire log to make starting the fire a breeze! I learned this the hard way, struggling in the windy fall air—trust me, this little hack will save you some serious hassle. With the flicker of flames and the smell of wood smoke, you're guaranteed a cozy fall memory. Just remember to bring blankets—and maybe a portable speaker for some background tunes (think Stevie Nicks meets Brandi Carlile vibes).

2. Pumpkin Patch Excursion

You're never too old for a pumpkin patch. Head to your nearest patch or apple orchard for a classic fall date or friend outing that's guaranteed to put you in the autumn spirit. Wander through rows of bright orange pumpkins, pick out the quirkiest one you can find, and take a few silly photos along the way. Many pumpkin patches have corn mazes, hayrides, or mini farmers markets, making it the perfect mix of outdoor fun and fall vibes.

If you're lucky enough to end up in an apple orchard, bring some apples home for a baking session later. Apple crisp, caramelized apples, or just apples with peanut butter—nothing says fall quite like a kitchen filled with autumn treats. (sidenote: caramel apples are surprisingly easy, but that's for another blog post!) The best part? No reservations or dress code is required; just bring a healthy dose of enthusiasm (and maybe a scarf for dramatic effect).

3. Star Picnic Night

As the nights grow longer, fall is the perfect time for a stargazing picnic. Pack some blankets, bring a thermos of something warm, and find a quiet spot away from city lights. Lay back, relax, and let the night sky put on a show. Stargazing is the ultimate way to have one of those deep, meandering conversations that only seem to happen at night.

No astronomy degree is needed here! Whether you're pointing out constellations or making up your own (they won't know lol) the night sky has a way of putting things in perspective. If you're with a date, it's pure romance; if you're with a friend, it's the perfect backdrop for laughs and low-key super-homo bonding. Either way, under the stars, is exactly where you'll want to be.

Fall is all about cozy connections, whether with a partner, a friend, or even just enjoying a day by yourself. So grab a buddy, even if it's your trusty Pug Max, pick an adventure, and embrace the season's charm. Whether you're around a campfire, lost in a pumpkin patch, or stargazing on a blanket, fall has something magical waiting for everyone.

Answer the call, make some memories, and remember your sense of humor, as well as the Adidas official Gay Campgrounds sweatshirt, of course. It's so soft—it feels like magic! Max the pug loves to cuddle up on me while I wear it. Click the button below to receive a 20% discount added to your order automatically! This is a special thank you just for my blog readers to keep you toasty on your star picnic. (promo code - BLOGREADERS20 )