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Sleep apnea disaster, CPAP mask mishaps, and why I'm considering mouth tape like a willing hostage. Everything they don't tell you

Listen up, because this is about to get wild. Tech is a complete dumpster fire right now – AI's getting shadier by the day, checkout...

Skip the last-minute Pride panic! From festival-hopping to beach weekends, smart planning now means more fun, less drama. Let’s start now.

Have thoughts on ADHD and neurodiversity? Drop a comment below or share this with someone who needs it! Take a look at my recent...

Apple intelligence stupidity got you down. Let's speed it up, and take off the trianing wheels with this guide.

My story about my decision to become circumcised as an 18-year-old young adult, a full walk-through

The short stories of Horst Schultz. The man with a cannon in between his legs. read hus story with gay mens field guide.

As for me, well, "Demisexual" (the disorder named after crazy-face from the substance) - not so bad! We even have our cute little flag

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance isn’t about bikes—it’s about making peace with the road behind you. This book was a cathartic.

It wasn't the screen time reports (though 9+ hours daily was a wake-up call). It wasn't even missing my morning workouts because I'd stayed

Hey Guys, I'm Zola- a tech bro of Upton's back from when we were students at Michigan State. I'll be contributing from time to time.

Vulnerability and the One That Got Away: My Retreat Misstep   So surprise, I'm a gay man in recovery! At a recent Recovery retreat for...

So, you’ve found your way to the Gay Men’s Field Guide Blog. And let me tell you, it’s a wild ride from here on out. I’m Upton Rand, your...

Embracing the Mic: My First-Ever Appearance on the Probably True UK Podcast   Hey Adventurers!    I’ve got some exciting news to share—...

It all started on a typical coffee run with Max, my pug. As usual, he was stealing the show, and a guy—friendly bear cub...

Upton Here,   This past Sunday, I found myself at a nude game day with my friend Eyeton. Yep, nude! Bundled up in two layers (thanks to...

So, you’ve found your way to the Gay Men’s Field Guide Blog. And let me tell you, it’s a wild ride from here on out. I’m Upton Rand, your...

As the warm weather approaches, many outdoorsmen are getting ready to explore the great outdoors. For classic gay outdoorsmen looking to...

With the changing seasons upon us, it's time to step up our outdoor fashion game. For stylish gay men who love spending time in the great...

Have you been looking for a way to empower your style and give back to the community? Look no further than Gay Mens Field Guide, a...

On my latest blog I wanted to share a recent interview out with you guys with some great messeging on U=U. Not sure what that is?...

Let’s be honest—open relationships get a bad rap sometimes, especially in the gay community. People are quick to throw shade, but they...

I’ve just embarked on this incredible journey of connecting with the gay community. I’m thrilled to report that I can finally bridge...